Becoming Her.
Becoming Me.

Not every story gets a fairytale ending, some get new beginnings. Becoming Her. Becoming Me isn’t just a memoir. It’s a mirror of self-reflection. This isn’t just my story. It’s yours too. For every woman who contorted herself just to be chosen. Who wore strength like armour and smiled for the world, then turned around and cried behind closed doors. Who ticked all the boxes but still felt unfinished. Who played the part so well, she forgot it was a performance.

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A warm welcome to todaysheis.me

A blog about the modern-day woman in all her glory. Dedicated to all those women unapologetic about who they are, embracing everything life throws at them. Women of purpose with multiple personas and emotions. Not afraid to be their true selves. Here’s to every woman on a constant journey to be better than they were yesterday Enjoy x

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About Author

Azalea Tailor aka Suki is a writer, brand builder, and serial survivor of life’s plot twists. The big ones. The brutal ones. And the ones that almost broke her.

She lives by three things – truth, the love of friends and family, and great wine.

After a career spent building other peoples’ stories, she finally stopped to write her own. Becoming Her, Becoming Me.

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Dear Mr Right, whoever & wherever you are, I know you’ll come when it’s right.

“People say you don’t exist. Yes, I agree no one is perfect but people can be right with all their imperfections and flaws, can’t they? So, you must know that I do believe in you. I do believe somewhere out there you do exist”. Ankita Singhal

Some may say I am a commitment-phobe. Me, I like to think of myself as more of a ‘won’t settle for anything less than she wants’ kinda girl and until I find Mr Right I’ll just carry on with life, trying the relationships on for size.

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Hello younger self, it’s good to see you again. Why don’t we have a little chat?

“Failure is fantastic, because you meet yourself and get to know your limitations. This is how I express myself, and I can’t do it any other way.” Billy Childish.

I often ask myself if I could have a do over what would I change? The simple answer is very little. Because my journey, the twists and turns I took made me the woman I am today. And let me tell you, she’s pretty awesome.

Having said that if I ever met my younger self, these are the things I’d want her to know.

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It’s not you, it’s me. Where have I heard that before?

“If you push me away, I promise you, you won’t find me where you left me. My heart’s big, but not big enough to deal with people who decide to love me when it’s convenient. The Modern Break Up.

Let’s imagine a very common scenario. Boy meets girl, there’s an instant attraction, you’re getting along really well, you have a great connection, you talk long into the night about anything & everything, get each other’s sense of humour & then out of the blue you hear those familiar words.

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It’s dark out there and at times there is no light.

In the words of an inspirational author, Ana Claudia Antunes.

“Teach your inner demons to roam your mind without damaging your thoughts”

It’s ok to feel sad. There I said it. 

This does not make you weak, a manic depressive or someone who is unable to deal with life. No. It just makes you human. The sooner we accept this the better it will be for all of us.

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A warm welcome to todaysheis.me

A blog about the modern-day woman in all her glory. Dedicated to all those women unapologetic about who they are, embracing everything life throws at them. Women of purpose with multiple personas and emotions. Not afraid to be their true selves. Here’s to every woman on a constant journey to be better than they were yesterday Enjoy x

read more

About Author

Azalea Tailor aka Suki is a writer, brand builder, and serial survivor of life’s plot twists. The big ones. The brutal ones. And the ones that almost broke her.

She lives by three things – truth, the love of friends and family, and great wine.

After a career spent building other peoples’ stories, she finally stopped to write her own. Becoming Her, Becoming Me.

read more
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